A major relationship problem is like a bomb

You can think of a major relationship problem as like a bomb that grows bigger over time.
If left unattended, it will enlarge and one day detonate,
injuring friends and family in collateral damage.
Tackling a difficult relationship problem can thus be like diffusing this bomb.
It can be really hard, really complicated,
and may require the help of a bomb disposal team
or several rounds of therapy.
It may take multiple attempts, and if you are not careful, it may explode in your face.
But what is clear, if you don’t find a way to diffuse it, your relationship will surely implode.